Ask About Her Inner World

Learn how to ask questions about her thoughts, feelings, dreams, and concerns. Show you care about who she is, not just what she does.

Why This Matters

Asking about her inner world shows you care about who she is, not just what she does. It creates emotional intimacy and helps you understand her on a deeper level.

The Secret: Ask About Who She Is

This isn't about what she did today. It's about her thoughts, feelings, dreams, concerns—her inner world.

How to Ask About Her Inner World

1. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Questions that invite deeper answers:

- "What's been on your mind lately?"

- "How are you feeling about [something]?"

- "What are you hoping for?"

- "What's worrying you?"

2. Ask About Feelings

Not just what happened, but how she feels:

- "How did that make you feel?"

- "What was that like for you?"

- "How are you feeling about that?"

3. Ask About Dreams and Hopes

Show interest in what she wants:

- "What are you hoping for?"

- "What would you love to do?"

- "What are you dreaming about?"

4. Actually Listen

Don't just ask and wait to respond. Actually listen. Hear what she's saying. Show you care.

5. Follow Up

Ask follow-up questions. Show you're interested. Don't just move on to the next topic.

What Makes It Work

You ask about feelings: Not just what happened, but how she feels.

You ask about dreams: Show interest in what she wants.

You actually listen: Hear what she's saying, don't just wait to respond.

You follow up: Show you're interested, ask more questions.

Common Mistakes

Only asking about what she did: Ask about who she is, not just what she does.

Not listening: Actually hear what she's saying.

Moving on too quickly: Follow up, show interest.

Making it about you: Focus on her, not yourself.

The Win

You asked about her inner world. You showed you care about who she is. You created emotional intimacy. You connected on a deeper level. That's a win.