Focus on Her Pleasure

Make an intimate encounter entirely about her pleasure. Ask what she wants and follow through without expecting anything in return.

Why This Matters

Focusing on her pleasure shows you care about her satisfaction. Selfless giving in intimacy strengthens emotional and physical connection. When she feels truly pleasured, your intimacy improves for both of you.

The Secret: It's All About Her

This isn't about you getting something. It's about making her feel amazing, asking what she wants, and following through without expecting anything in return.

How to Focus on Her Pleasure

1. Ask What She Wants

Don't assume:

- "What feels good?"

- "What do you want?"

- "How do you like to be touched?"

- "What would make you feel amazing?"

2. Listen and Follow Through

When she tells you:

- Actually do what she says

- Pay attention to her response

- Adjust based on her feedback

- Keep checking in

3. Don't Rush

Take your time:

- Don't rush to the "main event"

- Enjoy the whole process

- Focus on her pleasure throughout

- There's no timeline

4. No Expectations

This is about her:

- Don't expect anything in return

- Don't make it transactional

- Just focus on making her feel amazing

- Her pleasure is the goal

What Makes It About Her

-You ask what she wants:** You don't assume

-You listen:** You actually follow through

-You take your time:** You don't rush

-You have no expectations:** It's about her, not you

Common Mistakes

-Assuming you know what she wants:** Ask, don't assume

-Rushing through it:** Take your time

-Having expectations:** This is about her, not you

-Not listening:** Actually do what she says

The Win

You focused entirely on her pleasure. She felt amazing. You connected deeply. That's a win.