Practice Acts of Service as a Love Language

For some people, actions speak louder than words. When acts of service are her love language, doing things for her shows love in a way words can't.

It's not about what you think she needs. It's about what actually makes her life easier or better.

Pay attention to:

- What tasks stress her out

- What she complains about having to do

- What she does regularly that you could do

- What would give her a break

The whole point is to take something off her plate. If she has to ask, it's not the same.

Don't half-ass it. If you're going to do it, do it right:

- Clean the kitchen, not just load the dishwasher

- Handle the morning routine, not just make coffee

- Take care of something completely, not just start it

Don't announce it. Don't expect thanks. Just do it. Acts of service are about making her life easier, not getting credit.

It's something she actually needs: Not what you think she needs.

You do it without being asked: Anticipate, don't wait.

You do it well: Complete it, don't half-do it.

You don't make it about you: Just do it, don't announce it.

Doing what you want to do: It's about what she needs, not what you think she needs.

Half-doing it: If you're going to do it, do it right.

Expecting thanks: Acts of service aren't transactional.

Making her manage you: Don't ask what to do—figure it out.

You did something that made her life easier. She felt cared for. You showed love through action. That's a win.