Play Relationship Games Together

Learn how relationship games can deepen connection and add playfulness. Try games that help you have real conversations.

Why This Matters

Relationship games create structured opportunities for deep connection. They help you have conversations you might not have otherwise and add playfulness to your relationship. They're fun and meaningful.

The Secret: Be Open and Vulnerable

These games only work if you're willing to be honest and vulnerable. They create safe spaces for conversations, but you have to actually engage.

Popular Relationship Games

1. "We're Not Really Strangers"

Card game with deep questions
Three levels of intimacy
Encourages vulnerability
Great for meaningful conversations

2. "The Gottman Card Decks" App

Good conversation starters from the Gottman Institute
Multiple card decks (love, intimacy, etc.)
Free app available
*Note: This is made by the Gottman Institute, not us. We just think it's useful.*

3. "TableTopics for Couples"

Conversation starter cards
Designed specifically for couples
Fun and thought-provoking
Easy to play anywhere

4. "The Adventure Challenge: Couples Edition"

Scratch-off adventures
Fun activities to do together
Adds spontaneity
Creates shared experiences

How to Play Relationship Games

1. Pick a Game

Choose something:

- You're both interested in

- That matches your comfort level

- You can commit to playing

- That sounds fun to both of you

2. Set the Mood

Create the right environment:

- No distractions (phones away)

- Comfortable setting

- Enough time to play

- Relaxed atmosphere

3. Be Honest

When playing:

- Answer questions honestly

- Don't hold back

- Listen to her answers

- Be vulnerable

4. Have Fun

Remember:

- It's supposed to be fun

- Don't take it too seriously

- Laugh together

- Enjoy the connection

What Makes It Work

-You're both engaged:** Both people participate fully

-You're honest:** You answer questions truthfully

-You listen:** You pay attention to her answers

-You have fun:** It's enjoyable, not stressful

Common Mistakes

-Not being honest:** These games only work if you're real

-Taking it too seriously:** Have fun with it

-Not listening:** Pay attention to her answers

-Rushing through it:** Take your time, enjoy it

The Win

You played a relationship game. You had meaningful conversations. You connected and had fun. That's a win.